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Past success is like taking a breath.

Past success is like talking a breath. It can only take you to this moment and if
you hold on to it too long you will not survive.

The two most telling statements about a person’s lack of progress are:

”I should have…” or ”I remember when I use to…”

There is nothing you can do about what happened yesterday except remember it. Past successes are only stepping stones to future successes. They should be used to eliminate fears, worries and doubts. There is a biblical story about a man named David who was able to conquer a giant because he remembered that in the past he killed a lion and he killed a bear. This gave him the additional confidence to know that he had the ability to conquer this giant as well. Remember some of our biggest giants are not the ones that are outside of us. They are the ones that are inside. The ones we have been carrying around with us that we allow to grow bigger.

What giant B.E.A.R.s are you facing that have limited you? What successes can you reflect upon to give you the courage to move forward and win?

If this blog has helped you in any way please leave me a comment. Thanks.

Until next time:

Keep Fighting the B.E.A.R.
Dewong Lucas, Sr.
Hunter@FightingTheBear.com

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Those who GIVE the most will HAVE the most!

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Those who give the most will always have the most is from the principle of sowing and reaping. If more of us would think like farmers and start sowing the seeds of what we want, we will always have abundance. If you sow the seeds of friendship you will grow friends. If you sow the seeds of love you will have love. If you sow the seeds of insecurity, hatred, selfishness and lack, that will be your harvest.

We all should have been taught to get rid of the habit of self-centeredness around the age of 3 years old. This is what is known as learning to share. This is the act of giving something without the expectation or the demanding of something immediately given back to us. Anyone who has ever planted fruits or vegetables knows not to go out the next day or even worse, 10 minutes later and collect fully mature fruits and vegetables. So why do we expect such a fast return in life?

Giving should be a natural part of your lifestyle. This works in personal relationships and in business. Those who go into a mature relationship with the mindset of giving will always get. A mature relationship is when those involved don’t go into it with the expectation of getting, but with the anticipation of what they can give. Many relationships, personal and business have ended because one or both parties no longer or never had the other person’s interest in mind. Their only thought was “What about MY needs.” You will hear them say things like “He/She does not excite ME anymore.”, or “I don’t love them anymore.” As if true love was an emotion and not a decision. A successful relationship happens when two giving people come together and give; not when two needy people get together expecting to get.

Here is something for free to help you add spice to any relationship. Whenever you feel your relationships are heading in the wrong direction simply remember the letters S.P.I.C.E.D. These letters represent the following: Show Personal Interest ICommunicating Every Day.  For the men reading this, the greatest form of communication is listening and not just hearing. Send me a comment if you need more explanation.

In business, the employee that is expecting something from the business and they don’t get it start showing up late, mistreating the customers, or even resort to stealing. The company/manager who only looks at what they can get from the employee treats them as equipment to be used and abused instead of treating them as people who were hired to bring value.

The business that gives the best service, products, or convenience will have the most customers. The person that gives of themself the most will always have the most for themselves. If you are not used to or not comfortable with giving, this is the best time to start and no one would look at you strange. If someone asked why are you giving (kind words, gifts, help, etc), just tell them “‘Tis the season.” Start planting seeds of goodness and watch how great your harvest will be.

If this blog has helped you in any way please leave me a comment. Thanks.

Until next time:
Keep Fighting the B.E.A.R.
Dewong Lucas, Sr.
Hunter@FightingTheBear.com
www.FightingTheBear.com

The Narrow Road of the Entrepreneur

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Many people look at being an entrepreneur like driving up a narrow dirt road on the side of a steep mountain. The  loose dirt road is barely wide enough for all the tires to fit and each turn is filled with unknown dangers and low visibility. The possibility of oncoming traffic forcing you off the road down a thousand foot cliff to your death is a constant thought. If you are not feeling uncertain, uncomfortable, or pressure occasionally; you’re not growing and playing it too safe. This is part of being an entrepreneur. Nothing guaranteed except a chance to win.

These types of emotions will happen. They shouldn’t happen to the point of crippling you or stopping you from moving forward. The emotions are like road markers to let you know that you are growing and pushing forward. Trying to completely avoid what’s uncomfortable will keep you where you are. In order to rise to a level you have never been you must strengthen the muscles you’ve been using or use new ones. If your current level of abilities and talents were enough to take you where you want to go, you would already be there. They are not. That is why we must increase our abilities, our mental toughness and skills.

We cannot change the laws of nature. If we try to break them, we’re usually the only thing that gets broken. It doesn’t matter rather we know them or believe them. If you know nothing about the law of gravity it will still pull you to the earth. You can choose not to believe the laws of gravity. Step off a cliff you will still go down. No matter how much you hope, wish, or pray to float in the air. If you know nothing about the laws of business, but you conduct yourself instinctively within the success principles you will still succeed and if you don’t will fail. In today’s world of technology and available information there has never been so much information available to us. You can find information on just about any subject you can think of. So there is no excuse for not knowing.

Although the road of the entrepreneur is narrow and may appear scary. The fear can be minimized or even eliminated if you increase what I refer to as your KUSA level. What is a KUSA Level? The acronym KUSA is Knowledge, Understanding, Skills, and Action.  Most fear comes from the unknown.  Once we increase our Knowledge about something the fear of it begins to decrease or leave completely. Once we acquire knowledge we now can begin to understand. Understanding allows us to create solutions and preventions. To help explain KUSA levels let’s use learning a foreign language as an example.

K – Knowledge

I view knowledge as having the ability to recognize a foreign language, Spanish, German, Chinese, but not how to read, speak or understand it. You know it’s a different language. You know you can’t understand it. You know you can’t read or speak it. This phase is important because you are able to recognize what you don’t know. Unfortunately in business failing entrepreneurs fail because they don’t know until it’s too late. They move from crises to crises never gaining knowledge on why the problems keep happening. For those who are able to recognize early what they don’t know and seek advise and solutions are able to navigate the winding narrow road much easier.

U – Understanding

Understanding is having the ability to interpret the knowledge you are getting. This would be recognizing some of the words of the foreign language. Not be fluent just yet, but able to interpret the meaning of the words as they relate to something you are familiar with.  This is what I call starting to make it your own.  This were an entrepreneur starts getting the “Aha” moments and things starts making sense. Not just about the product or service, but also the accounting, marketing, and sales parts of the  business.  The more you understand, the more knowledge you desire have.

S – Skill

Skill would be the ability to take that knowledge and understanding, test it in real world applications and make corrections based on the feedback you’d get. As  you continue to test and correct your skill level and understanding increases. This would be trying to use the foreign language to speak, read, write or translate. The more you practice the more you improve.  As entrepreneurs we have to test and adjust our marketing plans, our pricing plans and all aspects of our business until it we’re getting the results we want.

A – Action

Action would be to avoid procrastination and complacency. Taking constant, purposed, and deliberate action leads to mastery. In the case of the foreign language we reach fluency. In the case of business we reach niche market dominance. Our actions must continue with the purpose of increasing our skills, understanding our customers, and gaining knowledge of what they want. We must not sit on what we have learned. We must constantly validate our policies, plans and directions because the tastes and needs of our customers changes over time.

As entrepreneurs we must spend time increasing our knowledge about our Industry, product/service, and our customer. This knowledge allows us to increase our understanding. An increase in understanding allows us to develop skills to take actions that leads to our ultimate success. This increase in our KUSA level acts like guardrails on that narrow road making it safer to travel. It also makes the road a little wider so we can increase our speed along the way.

(Knowledge + Understanding + Skill) X Action = SUCCESS

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Thank you,

Dewong Lucas, Sr.

http://www.HelpingEntrepreneurs.com

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